You are sooooooo right. I guess that’s it we’re done. Thank you so much. Worth every penny. Wishing you much success. You need to go on the Today Show somehow. This morning I woke him up 30mins before his usual wake up time—-still no accidents. I can’t believe a little over a week ago he was using diapers. WOW!

Debbie

hi lora thank you so much for your guidelines. i used your knowledge to help potty train my son who is over 32 months old. i never thought id be able to do it from all the scary stories ive heard but in 3 days it wasnt scary its more of a miracle MAGIC IS WHAT I CALL IT. My son got it by the end of the first day we went out i know which i shoulnt have but in front of all my family who have kids and known are trained yet he said i need to go pee we went and he did a pee in the potty. second day one accident a bm in the diaper otherwise dry third day dry all day. thank you thank you. trust me this works.

Aside from that lora i cant get my son to poo in potty tried all your recomandaitions, nothing let me know?

thanlks jc

Here is the original message i sent to you….

it is the beginning of the 4th day. yesterday morning i thought i was going to loose my mind. i felt like we were going backwards instead of forwards. so many accidents and so much frustration. i think in part i am a working mom, and i was at the point i was sick and tired of being in a house for three days looking at his penis all day. we did everything imaginable, baked a cake, play dough, arts and crafts, music and dance time, reading, swinging and outside play, trains, cars etc….i don’t know how all you stay at home moms do it. i told my girlfriend, my 150 $ a week in daycare is a good investment. i think i would be on xanax if not! LOL. my hats off to you!

in the afternoon my husband stayed with him while i got out and ran some errands. and i got a phone call that he pooped on the potty and hasn’t had an accident since. he woke up dry from his nap and this morning as well. so far so good this morning. he went to the potty twice already no accidents. after i felt like we had a breakthrough with the poop i felt relieved and started enjoying things. i had to change my way of thinking. i have never seen my kid so happy and so proud of himself. we even went out to dinner last night with no problems.

so what should i expect from here on out? i know that he will still have accidents somewhat. now that it has clicked, how long do i keep following this method until he initiates going to the bathroom on his own? do i continue to keep waking him up 1 hour after bedtime to take him to the potty, and how long do i do that for?

any suggestions for dealing with him while out and about for the day? what do i do if he starts grabbing himself and i have no potty to get to in time? how long before he actually tells me verbally that he has to go? as you can imagine while in a store or visiting with friends you get wrapped up in conversation and not watching him every second of the day. so it would be hard to catch him if he is only giving physical (grabbing) signs. what do i do in these cases?

again, thank you for your support and advise, although thru this process i thought at some point the white coats were going to come and carry me away. LOL

potty training is almost as bad as having an infant sucking on boobs every two hours and getting no sleep! LOL

thanks again!
Shawnee

p.s. i would like to add since you have been gone, it is now the end of day 5. i woke up this morning to the sounds of keagan’s potty chair playing music. i looked and he was in the bathroom with his pants around his ankle going to the potty. i can’t believe it! we had to take an hour trip one way to my husbands grandfather’s house for father’s day. he waited until we got there and pee’d in the potty. we have been accident free today! we are headed back to daycare tomorrow and i am less apprehensive then i was a couple of days ago. his is like this strong little boy with so much confidence now. it is amazing to watch! i think he will do fine, but i still am worried about her putting him in pull ups. thru this whole process i have only had to change his sheets twice. it was the best investment i have ever made. thank you.

We are having wonderful success with your program. It “clicked” with our 2 1/2 year old son by the end of the first day, much to our amazement as the only form of potty training before this was begging him to tell us when he need to go and in return getting a firm “NO”. This has not felt stressful at all (except for the initial 10\12 hrs when I was still unsure). We had a great second day, dry pants every time but one, and then only a little dribble on the way to the potty. He has made it through naps and both nights completely dry as well. He even went on demand before bedtime last night. I am so thrilled with this instant progress.

But now I have a couple of concerns; first off, we are at the start of the third day and he has not yet had a bowel movement even though he has eaten well. Would there be anything else you could suggest? I know he understands the concept as we had a couple false alarms where he only passed gas once he is on the toliet. Secondly, when he wakes up dry from nap and overnight, he still is waiting an hour to hour and a half before he is ready to go. If you have any additional tips to offer, I am willing to listen and try!

My son loves feeling like a big boy and bragging to Grand parents and others that he doesn’t need diapers any more. I can’t thank you enough for your wonderful advice you have written what should be common sense, but what we overlook as parents when we are too close to the matter. I will be referring my family and friends to you program as well!!!

Thank you,
Laura, Ron and big boy Cameron

Thanks.

No reply needed to this…I realize you are busy.

But one little story for you–

After 5 days of wearing real undies (2 days after 3 Day Potty Training)…a dear friend who had her 2nd baby, 8 years after her first–wanted to see us before she had to go back to work. She lives 1.5 hours away.

Was dying to see the new baby and her! So off we went on our first road trip and not in diapers!

I keep a spare pair of everthing in the car….tee-shirt, pants/shorts, undershirt and underwear.

So for our road trip I was covered–but grabbed an old gatorade bottle.

Figured he would have to potty on the roadtrip. Can you guess….my first child. Some other moms I knew had some porta potty in their car–they have girls. I explained to my son–your words–you are in charge. It’s your body, you have to let me know when you have to potty. OK? He said OK.

So off we go…(I admit, I did not give him much to drink before we left, so that we could make decent time)….about 30 minutes into the trip he informs me he has to go. So I immediately pulled way over off the side of the interstate….nice flat area….way off the burm–jumped out, ran around to his side of the car–got him out and it dawned on me right then and there!

Hey, he’s a boy, why did I bring a plastic bottle?!? Helped him get his pants down and said aim for the grass big guy! Did our best to make sure the wind was at our back–He was awesome and enjoyed it–and everytime he said he had to go, he did–so not completely taken with doing it outdoors–thank goodness! I think this is when he mastered the whole standing up to pee and enjoying it! So take a road trip–vs. some plastic Peter Potty!

Also to let you know….in our 2 months since using your method and book–he has only had 2 accidents –one at pre-school and one in the park after having to go but saw condition of potty in park….I offered him the opportunity to go around the back of building, but he said no, it was okay…but he had to have a BM–got bothered by condition of potty–few minutes later, had his BM–so grateful for the back up clothes & told him these things happen, no big deal…etc. –but no set backs what-so-ever.

Again, best $24-25 I spent.

Thanks & smiles right back at ya!
Adele